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  • A new paradigm- not more rules
  • How to maintain your composure under conflict
  • How to understand and forgive other peoples behavior
  • How to forgive yourself for your behavior
  • A path to prevent future conflict
  • How to break through emotional barriers - your own and other people's

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WOW! Relationships can be hard!

Twenty years and thousands of hours helping kids, parents, couples, multiple personalities (DID), borderlines, and my own family, taught me that all of us are doing the best we can.

But frankly, there is a piece of our behavior that we can’t control. It happens too fast. Under stress our primitive responses take over while our more conscious mind is still confused and trying to sort it out.

Am I right about you so far?

Now consider what happened the last time you were told how to handle a situation. At that moment, in the middle of the fray, were you able to follow their advice?

Here’s why it doesn’t work.

Your primitive mind had its own idea about what you needed right then. Oddly enough your powerful rational mind couldn’t override your emotions.

But I’m getting way ahead of myself.

Now you are probably wondering if I have anything new to say. The fact is yes. I have helped hundreds of people ranging from “normal” to deeply disturbed.

But I’m going to let you in on a secret. Our brains are all the same. As it turns out, the powerful tools that change the lives of my more disturbed clients bring dramatic changes to the social, personal, and professional lives for the rest of us. The bottom line is it can change your life, too.

Or you could start right now by requesting your FREE copy of "The Power of Relationship"

Nothing is going to change until you understand how to keep your primitive reflexes from wreaking havoc on you life. I can teach you how. Start by listening to this 20 minute talk- FREE

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The book and audio CDs are available here. The key to change is my second book. “Oh, Wow! This changes everything” gives you the tools you need for lasting change. Best of all, you won’t find advice. More important, it helps you be what YOU want you to be.

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